Physical punishment is defined as the use of physical force
with the intention of causing the child to experience bodily pain or
discomfort so as to correct or punish the child's behavior. This
definition includes light physical force, such as a slap on a
child's hand, as well as heavier physical force, including hitting
children with hard objects such as a wooden spoon or
paddle.
However, physical punishment does not refer only to
hitting children as a form of discipline; it also includes other
practices that involve purposefully causing children to experience
physical discomfort in order to punish them. Physical punishment
thus also includes washing a child's mouth with soap, making a child
kneel on sharp or painful objects (e.g., rice, a floor grate),
placing hot sauce on a child's tongue, forcing a child to stand or
sit in painful positions for long periods of time, and compelling a
child to engage in excessive exercise or physical exertion.
In the United States, physical punishment is known by a
variety of euphemisms, including "spank," "smack," "slap," "pop,"
beat," "paddle," "punch," "whup/whip," and "hit." The term "physical
punishment" is often used interchangeably with the terms "corporal
punishment" or "physical discipline."
Physical punishment is
distinct from protective physical restraint. Whereas physical
punishment involves causing the child to experience pain as a form
of punishment, protective physical restraint involves the use of
physical force to protect the child or others from physical pain or
harm. Examples of protective physical restraint include holding a
child to prevent them from running into a busy street, pulling a
child's hand away from a hot stove, or holding a child who has hurt
another child to prevent him/her from doing so
again. The best ways to avoid having to use any form of
physical punishment is to learn other ways of gaining the
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